Abraham’s servant did not ask for
some extraordinary sign, like fire to fall from heaven. What he asked
for was to see some indication of one who would make a valuable wife in
that culture—one who was friendly, hospitable and hardworking. The
unusual circumstances, however, ultimately proved Rebekah was chosen by
God to be Isaac’s wife.
Does
this Biblical example teach a fail-proof method of knowing God’s will?
No. God promises us his guidance and his presence, not necessarily
external signs. He may choose to grant us events that, upon looking
back, we can trace to his leading. But that should not be expected. Much
of God’s will is learned in the struggle of doubt and faith.
He
wants us to live by the principles he’s laid down in the Bible. He is
concerned about how we live as much as what we do. That doesn’t mean
that what we do isn’t important, for our actions reflect our allegiance
to God. But doing God’s will means living one’s life in obedience to all
that he has revealed to us.
God also gives us his Word and the godly advice of others to discern his will.
